2/23/2013
Why Women Are the Superior Gender
I thought I would just state, that this is not a competition. What I state here is fact, nothing to argue or fight about. Men often want to agree about what I put here, but there is absolutely nothing to agrue about. After all the article is written by a man and a man that has a PhD so he knows wherefore he is talking. To be fair, women argue about things too.
It is what it is.
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Why Women Are the Superior Gender
In a Battle of the Sexes, Bet on the Women!
Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia recently claimed that the 14th Amendment to the Constitution - which prohibits depriving "any person" of equal rights - does not apply to women. In other words, according to Scalia, women are not the equal of men. Guess what? Scalia is right but in the diametrically opposite way because it seems women are actually superior to men! Here's the score.
It is a well known fact that in most cultures women live longer than men. In the United States, for instance, all races considered, women now live an average of 80.1 years, compared to 74.8 years for men. Hence, from a longevity standpoint women score a point.
Many studies have demonstrated that women have a higher pain tolerance than men; probably an evolutionary adaptation from childbirth. (The brilliant comedienne, Carole Burnett once tried to express to a man the pain of childbirth by telling him to imagine what it would feel like to "Take your bottom lip and pull it over your head!") Higher pain tolerance = another point for women.
It is a well known fact that in most cultures women live longer than men. In the United States, for instance, all races considered, women now live an average of 80.1 years, compared to 74.8 years for men. Hence, from a longevity standpoint women score a point.
Many studies have demonstrated that women have a higher pain tolerance than men; probably an evolutionary adaptation from childbirth. (The brilliant comedienne, Carole Burnett once tried to express to a man the pain of childbirth by telling him to imagine what it would feel like to "Take your bottom lip and pull it over your head!") Higher pain tolerance = another point for women.
Similarly, it is believed that, on the whole, women can live longer than men without food because women have more body fat and less muscle mass than men. Since fatty tissue needs far fewer calories than muscle, women have the double advantage during starvation of having less muscle (thus burning fewer calories) and more fat (thus having a greater amount of stored calories) which translates into a metabolic advantage during times of famine. Score's now women 3; men zip.Moreover, due to having less body mass than men, women use fewer natural resources (i.e., air, water, food, fuel, etc.) so women are naturally "greener" than men. Okay, score's now 4 to 0.
In addition, generally, women seem to have higher social and emotional intelligence than men; are less violent and aggressive; are almost never serial killers or sexual sadists; and are far safer drivers (sorry guys, but it's true). In fact, a recent "New York Times" piece noted that men are found to drive faster overall, ignore traffic laws more often, take more (and greater) risks and are involved in the majority of fatal crashes around the globe. Score's now women 5; men nada.
Also, having two X chromosomes provides a huge health advantage, which is clearly the case for X-linked diseases, such as color blindness, hemophilia and Duchenne's disease (a severe recessive X-linked form of muscular dystrophy). These diseases, caused by mutations on the X chromosome, nearly always affect only men. Since females have two cell lines (one paternal and the other maternal with different X chromosomes active), if just one of a woman's X chromosomes is "healthy" it can prevent the expression of most X-linked diseases. Males, however, who have a "sick" X chromosome will inevitably be affected, as they have no "back-up" X chromosome from a "healthy"cell line. Women 6; men zilch.
And then there's parthenogenesis! A form of asexual reproduction found exclusively in females, where growth and development of embryos occurs without fertilization by a male. What's more, parthenogenesis always results in female progeny because the offspring invariably possess two X chromosomes. While there are no known cases of naturally occurring mammalian parthenogenesis in the wild, it does occur in a variety of species and is a possibility in humans. Hence, it is theoretically possible for women to reproduce without any male, genetic contribution (i.e., sperm) while it is impossible for men to procreate without women. Score another point (their seventh) for the girls.
And speaking of sex, consider that women can be multi-orgasmic! Score another major point for the ladies.
In essence, the only area where men have a clear advantage over women is their physical strength and possibly reaction time. But, unless we're considering sports or athletic performance, even this physical advantage is becoming less and less important due to technological advancements that are leveling the physical playing field. Still, in all fairness, let's give the guys a point.
Final score: Women 8; Men 1.
So, in a true battle of the sexes, the smart move would be to bet on the women. Sorry Justice Scalia, but even narrow-minded, conservative misogynists can't ignore the facts all the time.
Remember, Think well, act well, feel well, be well!
Copyright by Clifford N. Lazarus, Ph.D.
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Here you have it, ladies! The truth on why we are better than guys. Okay, not completely, but here are 5 reasons why we may be!
1. We're Better at Recognizing a Pickup Line
According to a 2008 study, guys were shown to have a harder time distinguishing between friendly and frisky cues. I totally believe every word of this. I cannot count the number of times that being just nice to a guy has led them to believe I was hitting on them. Just because we are trying to be nice doesn't mean we wanna hook up!
2. We are Faster
Researches from Harvard-affiliated Bridgham and Women's Hospital discovered that the cycle length of the daily biological clock in women is short than men by six minutes. This means that women tend to wake up earlier.
3. We Make More Effective Congresspeople
Congressional women deliver more federal projects to their home districts and sponsor and co-sponsor more legislation than their male colleagues.
4. We are Better Educated
In the 2008-2009 academic year, women earned 60 percent of all master's degrees and finally caught up with men in earning 50.4 percent of doctoral degrees.
5. We Have Stronger Immune Systems
A 2009 study by scientists at McGill University showed that women have a built-in mechanism to protect themselves from infection. Estrogen naturally found in our bodies suppresses an enzyme that interferes with our defense system.
What do you think of these? What are other reasons women are better than men?
Read this book
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Here you have it, ladies! The truth on why we are better than guys. Okay, not completely, but here are 5 reasons why we may be!
1. We're Better at Recognizing a Pickup Line
According to a 2008 study, guys were shown to have a harder time distinguishing between friendly and frisky cues. I totally believe every word of this. I cannot count the number of times that being just nice to a guy has led them to believe I was hitting on them. Just because we are trying to be nice doesn't mean we wanna hook up!
2. We are Faster
Researches from Harvard-affiliated Bridgham and Women's Hospital discovered that the cycle length of the daily biological clock in women is short than men by six minutes. This means that women tend to wake up earlier.
3. We Make More Effective Congresspeople
Congressional women deliver more federal projects to their home districts and sponsor and co-sponsor more legislation than their male colleagues.
4. We are Better Educated
In the 2008-2009 academic year, women earned 60 percent of all master's degrees and finally caught up with men in earning 50.4 percent of doctoral degrees.
5. We Have Stronger Immune Systems
A 2009 study by scientists at McGill University showed that women have a built-in mechanism to protect themselves from infection. Estrogen naturally found in our bodies suppresses an enzyme that interferes with our defense system.
What do you think of these? What are other reasons women are better than men?
Read this book
2/17/2013
Random Quotes I have found
The confusion of mankind concerns how they view a woman's breasts. Patriarchy has taken the 'sacred' out of female body parts. What's a fellow to do, then? He treats a woman and her body parts as if they are objects of sex. Patriarchy has taken woman and her sacred genitals into a place of secular profanity. Correct vision adjusts this into 'this is for worship.'
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There are thousands of 'shrines' to all kinds of women, built by men. But women do not build 'shrines' for men. What does this tell you? The adoration/worship goes from male to female, not the other way around. Does that not prove dominance of female in the sense that male looks up to her and desires her, more so than that woman looks up to man and desires him? The factor here is that these men get nothing material from building these shrines. It is a labor of love. They are investing themselves in time and money to build a place to worship this woman. Each and every man, of course, asserts that the woman he worships is the most beautiful (most frequent adjective) on earth. Why is she so beautiful? Because he loves her. Why do men adore these women? Because they are an epitome, a symbol of something greater.
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There is an almost infinite variety of the types of women men adore. On face value, they sometimes like certain types. But whatever and whoever a man likes, she usually reminds him of someone and something long ago. There are 'imprints' and 'brands' upon a man associated with early experiences. These associations, fixations and fetishes cannot be removed, as they are wired into the brain. No one can argue with a man about his fetishes. It simply is as it is. It moves him, therefore, it is right.
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"I married beneath me - all women do." - Nancy Astor.
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I find much that is written about worshiping women has turned sexual, but it is much more than merely sexual. Of course a woman chooses who and when, but the position in the family (for instance) transcends a sexual role. I hope you enjoyed the quotes.
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There are thousands of 'shrines' to all kinds of women, built by men. But women do not build 'shrines' for men. What does this tell you? The adoration/worship goes from male to female, not the other way around. Does that not prove dominance of female in the sense that male looks up to her and desires her, more so than that woman looks up to man and desires him? The factor here is that these men get nothing material from building these shrines. It is a labor of love. They are investing themselves in time and money to build a place to worship this woman. Each and every man, of course, asserts that the woman he worships is the most beautiful (most frequent adjective) on earth. Why is she so beautiful? Because he loves her. Why do men adore these women? Because they are an epitome, a symbol of something greater.
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There is an almost infinite variety of the types of women men adore. On face value, they sometimes like certain types. But whatever and whoever a man likes, she usually reminds him of someone and something long ago. There are 'imprints' and 'brands' upon a man associated with early experiences. These associations, fixations and fetishes cannot be removed, as they are wired into the brain. No one can argue with a man about his fetishes. It simply is as it is. It moves him, therefore, it is right.
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"I married beneath me - all women do." - Nancy Astor.
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I find much that is written about worshiping women has turned sexual, but it is much more than merely sexual. Of course a woman chooses who and when, but the position in the family (for instance) transcends a sexual role. I hope you enjoyed the quotes.
2/15/2013
OUR day
The International Women's Day is coming up (March 8th) and CNN has put out a nice article about women. It is worth reading.
CNN article
"Make sure you continue to trust what you know about yourself and stay true to what you believe in.
Melinda Gates
CNN article
"Make sure you continue to trust what you know about yourself and stay true to what you believe in.
Melinda Gates
excerpt from (http://www.internationalwomensday.com)
IWD is now an official holiday in Afghanistan, Armenia, Azerbaijan, Belarus, Burkina Faso, Cambodia, China (for women only), Cuba, Georgia, Guinea-Bissau, Eritrea, Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Laos, Madagascar (for women only), Moldova, Mongolia, Montenegro, Nepal (for women only), Russia, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan, Uganda, Ukraine, Uzbekistan, Vietnam and Zambia. The tradition sees men honouring their mothers, wives, girlfriends, colleagues, etc with flowers and small gifts. In some countries IWD has the equivalent status of Mother's Day where children give small presents to their mothers and grandmothers.
The new millennium has witnessed a significant change and attitudinal shift in both women's and society's thoughts about women's equality and emancipation. Many from a younger generation feel that 'all the battles have been won for women' while many feminists from the 1970's know only too well the longevity and ingrained complexity of patriarchy.